THE SEXUAL SHAMAN
Part 1 Anatomy of the Energetic Orgasm
Energetic orgasms that do not require genital touching are increasingly the hot topic in sacred sexuality and Tantra circles. Sometimes it looks like we are creating a new religion with people in a class shaking, shimmying, and writhing on the floor or table.
Different teachers present varying techniques for eliciting an orgasm we might call an “energetic orgasm,” a “total body orgasm,” a “1-hour orgasm,” and a “breath orgasms”:
1) Intense breathing, sometimes with visualizations, sometimes with genital touching.
2) Stroking, fluffing, etc. the energy field just above (exterior) to the physical body.
3) Sending out energy beams or fibers from one body to another.
In this presentation, we will focus on a model of our energetic anatomy to give us an understanding of the nature of energetic orgasms and how to make them happen.
To see a video clip about energy merging and orgasm in Ray’s documentary Path of the Sexual Shaman, click here:
Part 2 Defanging the Sexual Vampire
In sex and orgasm we generally get lots of pleasure. We have emotional release. We generate a lot of energy. Sex and orgasm are good and are good for us — except when the energy is sucked out of us.
Some call it sexual vampirism. And for sexual vampires, orgasm time is bountiful harvest time.
I am using the term “sexual vampire” because I have begun to hear the term used more often. Generally, we have referred to the process as “cording.” We could say “energy sucking.” Personally, I refer to this as an “energy interference pattern,” which includes “extracting the intensity of another’s energy for one’s own use.”
Regardless of how we label it, the process is bad news as much for the “sucker” as for the “suckee.” The person stealing the energy may feel good and get an up effect. But it is like selling one’s soul to the devil. Reading such people’s energy patterns, I see that their spiritual and energetic growth is debilitated. They can talk the talk (sometimes very, very eloquently), but they can’t really walk the walk. They have literally energetically imprisoned themselves.
In the presentation I will discuss energetic anatomy concepts to give a much clearer understanding of what is taking place in the various forms of energy interference patterns. I will also suggest why some people are energy suckers and why some people are susceptible to being corded. Ways to possibly “clear” the interference patterns and the susceptibility will also be discussed.
Ray Stubbs PhD (Tucson, AZ) In 1975 Ray began teaching erotic massage to people of all sexual orientations in San Francisco. His 1989 Erotic Massage — the Touch of Love book was the first instructional book to illustrate genital massage and has sold over a million copies worldwide.
He has taught many somatic modalities and has written/created over a dozen books and DVDs on sacred sexuality including Women of the Light: The New Sacred Prostitute, Sacred Orgasms, and The Essential Tantra. Ray is the former vice-president of the Association of Sexual Energy Professionals. His latest creation is the Wisdom Ceremony Cards: Shamanic Ceremonies for Transformation.